Author: Leandie Buys

Leandie Buys is a Relationship Therapist and Clinical Sexologist. Over the past 13 years, Leandie has built a thriving practice as a successful relationship therapist and clinical sexologist in Port Elizabeth, South Africa. Leandie has helped thousands of couples in crisis to overcome their physical and relationship-based issues, and is passionate about her holistic approach to therapy which incorporates an individual’s physical environment, mental health, physical health, emotional health and sexual health.
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How you and your partner define love could make or break your relationship

Posted on Nov 17, 2019 by Leandie Buys

The difference in the way men and women perceive love is one of the biggest relationship issues I ...

Desire Discrepancy – When your libidos just don’t match

Posted on Nov 5, 2019 by Leandie Buys

Women’s libidos are affected by their emotions, their physical health, and their psychological health. Men’s libidos are less ...

Spring has sprung – Time to get rid of those relationship cobwebs

Posted on Sep 2, 2019 by Leandie Buys

How amazing it feels to see the sun rise earlier every morning and to know that we are ...

How would you rate YOUR relationship out of 10? Here’s how to fix it

Posted on Feb 19, 2019 by Leandie Buys

Rate your overall level of ‘happiness’ and satisfaction within your relationship on a scale between 1-10, where 10 ...

Real-life relationship resolutions for a better sex life in 2019

Posted on Jan 7, 2019 by Leandie Buys

If you want to make a difference in your relationship in 2019, then it’s time to write down ...

A relationship therapist reveals the things men “don’t get” about women

Posted on Jul 9, 2018 by Leandie Buys

Relationship therapist and clinical sexologist, Leandie Buys has been counselling couples for a decade, and has noticed some ...

5 Most common reasons for divorce

Posted on Jan 27, 2018 by Leandie Buys

There are five common reasons marriages fail. I have been a relationship counsellor and sex therapist for many ...

Separating or divorcing? How to tell the kids

Posted on Mar 16, 2017 by Leandie Buys

This is an unpleasant situation for everyone involved. There is no way to make a divorce or separation ...

What causes infidelity? Where does it start?

Posted on Jan 24, 2017 by Leandie Buys

Falling in love is easy. It's a flowing and spontaneous experience, but after a few years, the euphoria ...

What women DON’T want in a relationship

Posted on Aug 4, 2016 by Leandie Buys

In the past I have written about what men want from women and what they don’t want … ...

Find out what men DON’T want in a relationship

Posted on Jul 18, 2016 by Leandie Buys

In the past I have written about what men want from women, but I’ve never talked about what ...

The top 6 qualities of a great life partner

Posted on Apr 14, 2016 by Leandie Buys

As a relationship therapist and clinical sexologist, I help couples through heartache and relationship issues on a daily ...

How to boost your sexiness and self-esteem in the bedroom

Posted on Mar 2, 2016 by Leandie Buys

There are as many different body shapes in this world as there are people ...

8 Ways to help make the December holidays less dreadful

Posted on Dec 10, 2015 by Leandie Buys

It’s finally the end of the year… and I’m sure we’re all grateful for that. However, with December ...

Can a marriage with your affair partner last?

Posted on Dec 3, 2015 by Leandie Buys

Can an affair lead to a successful marriage? Is it possible for a couple who got together through ...

Sex addiction – Are you married to an addict?

Posted on Nov 18, 2015 by Leandie Buys

When most people think about sex addicts, they think “those people are perverts”, “they’re paedophiles”, “total sleaze-balls” …

How social media can open your relationship up to an affair

Posted on Nov 4, 2015 by Leandie Buys

Social media is causing an infidelity epidemic, and it’s ruining relationships

Should you tell your partner about your one-night stand?

Posted on Oct 27, 2015 by Leandie Buys

So you went away with some friends, and met a person who gave you butterflies in your stomach ...

The 3-times-a-week rule and other ‘bedroom’ myths you should know

Posted on Oct 13, 2015 by Leandie Buys

Relationship counsellor and clinical sexologist, Leandie Buys, talks about some of the most common sex-related myths, and offers ...

Divorced, single and ready to mingle? 7 Tips for successful dating

Posted on Oct 7, 2015 by Leandie Buys

“Are all the good guys are taken?”, “Where do you meet decent guys these days?” These are just ...

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