Say “Booty Call” and most people conjure up thoughts of some woman who is so desperate for a certain male’s attention that she happily puts up with him drunk dialling her at ungodly hours for no-strings-attached sex.
While this is often the case, the reality is that women worldwide have started turning that booty call table right around and are using men for sex (only) too! For years philandering, non-committal  men have said â??don’t hate the player, hate the gameâ?? – well the ladies are now â??playingâ?? and men have become fair game (although I’m sure they don’t mind).
So, effectively booty calling has become a mutually satisfying game that all can play.
Life is hectic, and we are all busy trying to make our mark in the world. Some of us are single parents and many of us just don’t have the time to date, never mind commit to a serious relationship.
None of which takes away the fact that we all have â??needsâ? (primal) and women are just as horny as men!
Within a booty call relationship one individual is free to â??booty callâ?? the other â?? usually by sms or a phone call, at short notice, often late at night â?? to suggest getting together for some fun casual sex.
Personally I sit on the fence with this one because I think that if both parties are single (NB!!!), practise safe sex (NB!!!) and are in mutual agreement that all they are to each other are ad hoc pleaure activators, then all should be good.
But then I think these kind of relationships are surely much easier for men as they seem to have no problem
“boinking” sans emotion. Women, on the other hand, may start out believing that having a sex order male on speed dial (our very own â??Mr Deliveryâ?? bedroom service) is just what the doctor ordered, but could (if not very careful) find themselves in an emotional mess and attached to a real jerk…