First dates can be awkward, disastrous, exciting, or wonderful. While you should focus on making a good first impression, connecting with your date is important.

That said, below are some first date flirty questions that can book you a second date.

The thoughts of meeting for a maiden date conjure feelings of anxiety and excitement in equal measures. Regardless of how prepared you are, you cannot be sure how the date will pan out, especially after successfully meeting someone from hookup sites.

Knowing that this is the best opportunity to meet and connect with your potential lover, you should be prepared with good questions to ask when getting to know someone.

Here are some of the best flirty questions that can help you avoid the awkward periods of silence characterising first date ideas:

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  1. Where are you originally from?

Your first questions during the date should be aimed at getting to know your date partner. Therefore, it is important to ask where he/she hails from, including the country, ethnicity, state, and possible hometown. While this might not be among the flirty questions you expect, it is a good question to get your date going.

  1. What makes you unique?

Including this question among your first-date questions can help you determine if you have shared hobbies and interests.

  1. What are the random facts about you?

The flirty questions to ask on a first date shouldn’t be so deep. Inquiring about interesting facts about your date can make a good conversation.

  1. Do you have any nicknames?

Nicknames suggest a lot about the character of a person. For instance, few ladies will agree to second dates with Pablo or Hitler.

  1. What is your occupation, and how long have you been in it?

This first date question simply inquires what your date does for a living. Most men have to answer this question on their first dates.

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  1. What do your friends know you for?

Answers to these questions can be embarrassing. However, they shouldn’t shape your idea about the person.

  1. What made you ask me out?

These are among the best flirty questions to ask men. It is a good question to gauge his motives.

  1. How long have you been single?

While you should play a hard or fast rule in such questions, it is good if your partner has been single for at least six months.

  1. What made you accept my invitation?

Your flirty questions ideas should also evaluate presumptions that your partner had before meeting. Find out if he/she liked your social media profile, personality, or just looking for a shoulder to lean on.

  1. What do you expect from our relationship?

The answer to this question suggests what the person missed in their previous relationship.

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  1. What is the longest relationship you have had before?

Relationship questions evaluate a lot about a person’s interest in your relationship. Try finding out what ended the previous relationship.

  1. How are you still single?

Asking this question is suggestive, especially if you want to be the one to take your date off the market.

  1. What do you love but embarrassed to admit?

Such first-date questions probe the guilty pleasures, which everyone certainly has.

  1. What is the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?

Find out if your date is comfortable sharing some of their most embarrassing moments and at least laugh at themselves.

  1. What was your first impression of me?

This question is a great conversation starter for lovers that recently crossed paths.

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  1. What are you looking for in a woman?

Asking this flirty question helps determine the type of person he/she wants in the next relationship.

  1. What are your attractive qualities?

The question allows your date to put their best foot forward. It is an opportunity to communicate personal strengths.

  1. Am I your usual type?

Don’t be surprised if your date answers “no” to this question. Remember that love doesn’t stick to lists.

  1. What is my best feature?

This flirty question will help you discover what your date likes best about you.

  1. What is your biggest turn on?

Such sexual questions take your flirting a notch higher. Take note of the answers as you may have to refer later.

  1. What is your biggest turn off?

Getting your date to answer this question can help you avoid doing what he/she doesn’t like. It is among the best questions for couples.

  1. Are you ticklish?

While this may be a weird question, follow it up by trying to tickle your date.

  1. What is your favourite sexual position?

Favourite’s sexual positions often mean something about your date. Listen keenly.

  1. Where is the craziest place you ever had sex?

This question helps in gauging how adventurous your date is.

  1. Where is your favourite place to have sex?

It is a cheeky question that will have your date to think about having sex. Listen to the answer keenly too.

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  1. What do you think of a perfect kiss?

This question suits those on a date with their crush. Take note of his/her description.

  1. What is the most romantic thing you ever did for someone?

If you want to prioritize building a connection, take note of the answers to such questions. It can help you note the creativeness of your date.

  1. What is the most romantic thing someone did for you?

Actions are the best way to communicate that you like someone. Be keen on the answer to this question too.

  1. Do you think men should always make the first move?

It is a good question if you are at the first dating stage. While it isn’t much of a flirty question, it helps evaluate if you are on the same page with your date.

  1. If we could spend a whole day together, what would we do?

The answer to this question is a good indication of how your date feels about you.

Most first-date questions highlighted above can apply to both genders

With such questions, you have no excuse for a boring first-date. If you have other suggestions, share them with us in the comments.