You balance their meals, so why not their media?

Many parents struggle with exactly how much screen time is OK for their kids. Is a half-hour show OK but a full-length movie ‘bad’? How much gaming should you allow when your kid also uses his computer for homework? Does Wikipedia count as ‘reading’? And when does a passion for say, video games, become problematic?

The truth is, there is no magic formula.

Just as every family differs in what they eat, when they eat, and what they like, a healthy media diet is different for every family. The key is making sure that the things that are important to your family are fairly balanced over the long term.

A healthy media diet balances on-screen activities (games, social media, TV), time (15 minutes? Three hours?), and choices (YouTube, Minecraft, Star Wars) with real-life activities (sports, face-to-face conversations, daydreaming). At some point, kids will be able to manage their own media diet. In the meantime, these tips can help set them up for success…

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Instead of counting daily screen-time minutes, aim for a balance throughout the week

Secrets of a well-balanced media diet

1. Find balance

Instead of counting daily screen-time minutes, aim for a balance throughout the week. Get your kids to help plan a week that includes stuff they have to do and stuff they like to do, such as schoolwork, activities, chores, reading, family time, and TV or gaming. Decide on limits and behaviour using our Family Media Agreement.

2. Walk the walk

Put your devices away while driving, at mealtimes (learn about our Device-Free Dinner initiative), and during important conversations. Kids will learn habits from you.

3. Talk about it

Ask questions about your kids’ favourite games, shows and characters. Discuss ideas and issues they read about or learn about through a TV show or a game. This is an opportunity for bonding, learning and sharing your values.

4. Create tech-free zones

Set rules that fit your family, such as ‘no devices during dinner’, ‘no social media during homework’, or ‘all screens off before bedtime’.

5. Check ratings

Choose age-appropriate, high-quality media and tech for your kids. Use our reviews to find good stuff.

Article by Caroline Knorr