So you’re divorced and feeling doomed to the single life, right? Don’t worry. Despite how you may feel now, odds are your depression won’t last forever…

We’re not going to cut corners here: Getting a divorce sucks, plain and simple. You struggled to make it work with your (now ex) spouse for years. You uncovered the half-truths and the deceptions, and at times even made excuses for them; you doggedly tried to brush off concerned questions from your family and friends.

And while you didn’t want to do it, you knew it had to be done. You filed for divorce. And now that you’ve received those final divorce papers, it’s natural to want to curl up into a ball of despair, mourning the loss of your relationship, trying to learn how to get over a divorce, and fretting about what life’s next chapter has in store for you.

But now that you’re free from an unhappy marriage, it’s the time to give yourself some TLC.

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To get you motivated, here are some study-backed facts that’ll make you feel better about being newly single again:

1. You can be happier

So you’re divorced and feeling doomed to the single life, right? Don’t worry. Despite how you may feel now, odds are that your depression won’t last forever.

Maybe this bit of news will lift your spirits: Researchers at London’s Kingston University found that women feel much happier for up to five years following the end of their marriages. And no, it wasn’t just because they had finally broken free of their unhappy marriages. They felt more content than they had in their entire lifetimes. So what were you saying about “marital bliss” again?

2. You’ll be healthier than if you stayed unhappily married

Researchers love to praise marriage as a health-booster (but they clearly were never stuck in a miserable marriage). And the rest of us tend to think that a marriage is better than no marriage at all. And while all the stats and studies love to tout the benefits of being hitched, we often forget that it’s not about the marriage as much as it is about the quality of the marriage.

There’s been plenty of science to prove that an unhappy, conflict-riddled marriage can be worse for you health-wise than if you were single. And if you hadn’t broken up, you would still be at an increased risk for heart disease, cancer, arthritis, diabetes and depression.

It’s not about the marriage as much as it is the quality of the marriage

3. Your kids will be better off

Don’t think that, just because you try to “stick it out” for the kids that they will be happier. Kids will appreciate two homes where mommy and daddy are separately happy over one home where mommy and daddy are hurling insults at each other and using them as pawns in their mind games.

Once you and your ex split, the tension is gone and the kids can breathe again. By getting a divorce in an unhappy marriage, you’re showing that you deserve to be in a supportive relationship – and that’s the best thing you can model for your little ones.

4. You’ll be happier in your next marriage

If you fall in love again, don’t be intimidated by the idea that you don’t have what it takes to make a marriage work. You actually have better odds at making your marriage last having been married once before.

In fact, a study found that people who remarry are less likely to get divorced. According to the Marriage Foundation, 45% of first-time marriages are destined for the divorce courts. Compare that to 31% of second-time newlyweds… how do you like your odds now?

5. You’ll have an easier retirement

As we’ve already mentioned, we rarely escape from an unhappy marriage expense free. However, a study proved that divorced women are often better off in late age. Researchers at the University of Connecticut, Social Security Administration, and National Institute of Aging, dug back through 40 years of Census Bureau and Social Security data to see how divorce affected women’s earnings over their lifetimes.

It turns out that the earnings growth was greatest for divorced women who never remarried. They were more likely to delay drawing benefits, resulting in higher lifetime benefits than married women. Financial independence is worth it!

READ MORE: Going through a painful break-up or divorce? You will make it!

Alexandra Churchill is a digital editor based in New York City. She currently works for Martha Stewart Living. Her work has been featured on numerous sites including The Huffington PostHer CampusUSA TODAY College, and Northshore and Ocean Home magazines.

This article was first published on YourTango.