There is a wonderful quote that says â??there is no way to happiness, happiness is the wayâ?.

We were taught that we need a reason to be happy

In fact if you are naturally happy people will often ask â??what are you so happy aboutâ? or â??why are you so happyâ? and we usually find a reason to share as that is how we are taught it works.
But I would like to answer that I am happy because life is a gift and joy is my natural state of being. I am happy because I get to live another day and witness and be a part of  beauty, kindness, laughter, passion, adventure, fun, wisdom and love.
I am happy because I choose to focus on what makes me happy rather than complain about what makes me miserable.
I am happy in the realisation that happiness is my responsibility – no one elseâ??s – and  that happiness is a frame of mind not a set of circumstances . 
Most  importantly I am happy because I know with all my being  that being  happy is  the most inspiring way that I can uplift others and be a gift to the world.

I am happy because I choose to be

Next time someone asks why you are so happy you have a wonderful answer, but if this one is a bit long you can simply say I am happy because I choose to be.

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Did you know? You can hire costumes from ACT Studios! These amazing costumes are to hire at a very reasonable rate. Come see what lurks in our closet. We are situated at Jingle Jangle Kids Play Park, cnr Wekker and Rubenstein, Moreleta Park. For enquiries regarding costumes please contact Soné on074 110 0145  or email

Hosting a childrenâ??s party? Why not get Deborah to come and entertain everyone with a imaginative puppet show.

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Need a speaker or speaking training? Deborah offers her services as an exceptional speaker and offers course/workshops on speaking training. Visit her site for more information.

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